bbq: Going to a bbq at lunch today (work bbq) with a friend of mine from work. Another girl at work wants to "tag" along, but she's kind of annoying and only talks about her work. She's somewhat ill-dressed and socially awkward. I'd rather her not come along with us, but I feel bad because she works next to me and I don't know how to get her not to come along.|||I think if she goes to your work and its a work bbq, theres no way out of this one. i would just be kind to her, but never give her any reason to think that you want to hang out with her outside of work.|||Just say it is invitation only and that only a small number of people are going not everyone in the office.|||Next time don't discuss your plans when she is in earshot of hearing you...|||tell her you're a romulan oh wait that would be for a klingon friend, not a cling on friend|||umm wow|||Ew. Star-treck. Get friends who don't speak Cling-on?